Money Buckets Samurai

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Energy flows.  Life flows.  Money flows.  In the end everything goes back to the source. In the meantime, flourish from the flow with the bucket strategy.

Energy flows. Life flows. Money flows. In the end everything goes back to the source. In the meantime, flourish from the flow with the bucket strategy.

One of the best things that I’ve done to impact my creativity and productivity is to get my financial life straight.    I’m not independently wealthy by any stretch of the imagination, but soon I will be down to no debt and am accumulating a modest amount in a retirement savings account.  I am a money buckets samurai.  I have multiple savings accounts for different purposes.  Having that system, catching that flow,   has helped me get clearer and more creative in other areas of my life.

There is the retirement bucket.  Steve Chandler in his book 100 Ways to Create Wealth suggests having a boring, automatic saving system along side to your more ambitious service and wealth producing ideas.  Though I never want to depend on money for my sense of security, there are times when I look at that slowly growing sum and think, “if something happens I could survive for a few years on that if something happens.”  Obviously, this is fear-based thinking and it is not advisable to touch your retirement account, but when my mind goes on fear, this account is one strategy to deal with it.

Phil Laut, author of Money is My Friend, introduced me to the concept of multiple savings accounts.  He explained that one of the reasons that it can be hard to save money is because people keep it all in one savings account.  For many people it can become a mental juggling act to remember the purpose for that money.   What I found revolutionary about Laut’s ideas about is that by having different accounts, you are also training your mind how to think about money.   Money buckets for the samurai mind.   Here is what Phil suggested:

You don't need to wait until you are financially solvent to sustain life around you. (In fact you might become more financially balanced if you focus on contribution and connection.)  However, the point of mind, body, wallet is also to be a vessel that overflows.

When I began to get control of my finances I was inspired to lead “Mind Body Wallet” workshops not as a financial expert but more of like cheerleader to encourage people to create better “vessels” for their financial and creative energy. B-U-C-K-E-T!

  • Cash Flow Savings Account:  this is an account where all your earnings go and where you pay yourself out from.  Laut suggests keeping a months earnings in this account and “paying yourself” from this account.  “The practice of spending last month’s income this month removes you from hope about money.”
  • Large Purchases Savings Account:  this is an account where you have the freedom to withdraw from it to save for and buy whatever you want.
  • Financial Independence Account:  you deposit money here and only withdraw the interest.   You are training your brain to think in terms of financial independence.
  • Millionaire Savings Account:  here you are training your mind (and your finances) to be prepared for making investments.
  • Annual Income Savings Account:  in this account you save to take a year off of work, and to benefit from the creative energy that would bring to your life and work.  Laut suggests building up to take a day off, a week off, etc.  I haven’t tried this one but it sounds fun.
  • Generosity Savings Account:  this is an account where you practice giving it away.  Laut writes, “You will find that generosity will enable you to let go of your desire to control others and will increase your ability to express your love freely, instead of looking for something in return.”  I like the act of just giving back to a world that has already given me so much.  I love giving to public libraries.

Luckily, having multiple savings accounts is a lot easier than when I first started.   Capital One 360 (formerly IngDirect) makes it easy to create and nickname different accounts and make deposits through the internets.   Interest rates, of course, are way lower so you would have to investigate different kinds of financial buckets beyond savings accounts.  But the key thing here is training your little ole samurai mind to catch your flow, financially and creatively.  Bucket!

Catch Your Samurai Flow!

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You can't really stop the flow of ideas, money, life but what are your systems to help you "go with the flow?"

You can’t really stop the flow of ideas, money, life but what are your systems to help you “go with the flow?”

The other day, I had the rare pleasure of going to a little bar/restaurant called Lil’ Frankies with friends from work.   As a teacher and dad of two young children, I don’t get out much.   I was a amazed that I could enjoy a place with purty looking drinks and food.  At 4:30 p.m. I announced I had to go and return a library book.  “Nerd Alert,” my friend chided.  As I walked towards the library and home, the nerd alert approached def-con as I fantasized about–hold on tight–getting a new filing cabinet.

Anyone who has seen my apartment or even my man-bag would know I am not going to be your de-cluttering guru anytime soon.   But what I am getting from my ongoing experience learning Japanese, writing, and guitar is that it’s really important to have tools and systems that catch your flow.

I want a decent and beautiful filing cabinet where I can easily organize my samurai notebooks and other projects, so that creating and remembering becomes even more systematic. I already have a plastic box where I have folders organized according to topics and by months and days.  (This is an idea I got from Getting Things Done.)    But I am ready to upgrade so the folders sit up right and the whole process of getting a folder out is smoother.  I’m trying to minimize physical or mental resistance because the more organized my flow and capture systems are, the more I can create.

It’s important to “capture” ideas, money, and projects in ways that enhance the flow even more.   It’s important to create systems but not be enslaved by those systems.   Here are some examples of tools and processes I consider to be my “flow capture” systems

  • Setting a timer for 15 minutes and writing even if I don’t have “anything to write” about every morning.  It can change my whole day to create an idea where there wasn’t one just through this little move.
  • Keeping a samurai mind notebook.  Keeping a notebook with positive ideas. information, skill bits and reviewing regularly means that my circuitry is kicking around the ideas and questions that I want there.
  • I have several automatic savings accounts for different purposes.   Capture your financial flow and keep your finances in different “buckets.”
  • I use surusu, an online spaced repetition flashcard system, to remember where I am in guitar.  When I study something on jamplay.com, I create a card with a link to the lesson.   When I don’t know “what to do” on guitar, I go to this deck and it takes me to the lessons either targeting or that I’ve forgotten about and could use a refresher.

Creating these systems may seem restrictive, but it actually frees you to play more.  Suddenly, there you are with a guitar strapped around your neck because deciding what to practice isn’t this mental storm of self-hatred.  The flashcard reminds you what to practice.  You practice.  Then you play.  Just in case you are too serious to remember to play, you can make that part of your system.  Part of why I enjoyed doing Silverspoon, a Japanese immersion service is that I would get reminders to just play–in Japanese.  Play is the ultimate “capture system.”  (Sounds severe, no? 🙂 )

You have a flow.  Catch the flow.  Catch the rainbow!

Keep it Greasy!: Bookmark Your Talents

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Unchain the wheels of your talent.   Little moments of practice.  Keep it greasy.

Unchain the wheels of your talent. Little moments of practice. Keep it greasy! Photo from unprofound.com.

Sometimes some skills seem so far away and our lives are so busy that it may seem like it is impossible to attain certain talents.  Japanese? French?  Arabic?  Guitar?  Coding? Farfegnoogin?  Fuggetaboutit?

But lately I’ve been taking advantage of little opportunities for practice and instead of thinking I’ve got to have it all at once, I’m telling myself, “I’m putting a bookmark here” and then just letting go.  I’m still a “private dancer”  as far as guitar goes, but the days of staying away from the guitar now seems a little foreign to me.  I ain’t makin’ no promises to you, or even myself.  I’m just moving the bookmark a little each day and yes, having some fun.

It’s all part of not breaking the neural chain, man. (hippie voice)  One of the key components of little moments of practice is that they work with the way the brain works.  As books like The Talent Code and The Little Book of Talent point out little moments of practice keep the neural  pathways greased.  The phrase you practiced yesterday becomes more natural and may even enter long term memory.  You want a learning affirmation from me?  “Keep it greasy.”

The beauty of it all is that you will either keep a bookmark in that talent until more time opens up or by taking one small action every day realize that the impossible goal is within your reach.   In other words those little bookmarks of five minutes will remind you that your targeted area is important and/or will become the opening wedge that will lead you to hours of practice and progress.

Who can eat just one french fry?  Keep getting greasier and greasier.

Fight for Your Life: Samurai Mind Notebook

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Keeping obligation out of your samurai notebook is about keeping your spirit free.  There are other tools for "shoulds" but fly, fight, and love in here.

Keeping obligation out of your samurai notebook is about keeping your spirit free. There are other tools for “shoulds” but fly, fight, and love in here.

But there is Boddhidharma, fierce eyes, teeth showing, intent and determined, a free spirit who [will not accept] the propaganda of mediocrity.  He challenges you to be free enough of society to transform it for the better.   —L. Boldt  Zen and the Art of Making a Living

Nurture your minds with great thoughts.  To believe in the heroic makes heroes.   –“All About The ” Benjamin(z) Disraeli

Sometimes in life you need to battle the “dark forces.”  You need a weapon.  You need a battle strategy.  You need to reexamine your tactics in a world that isn’t necessarily out there to bring out the best in us.  You need a de-programming device that helps you center your mind.   You need to become a beacon to others by becoming a beacon to yourself.  You need your trusty, dusty samurai mind notebook.

As I’ve been playing around with keeping notebooks, I’ve come to rely on them more.   A samurai mind notebook is a place where I keep the thoughts and knowledge that I want to have kicking around in my mind.  It’s the place where I put snippets of knowledge or forward moving quotes that will be there to lift me up and change my climate of thoughts.   They have a longer-lasting impact as I playfully review them on a regular basis.  (You can have notebooks to work out problems, complain, etc and that is awesome but the samurai mind notebook works better when it is positive, silly, useful, and fun.  Get a “working it out notebook” if you need a space for that.)

I don’t necessarily believe you should become a positive thinking machine.   You will have your feelings and you will feel suffering, but what will be out there/in there for you through that and after that?  The television news?  Keeping a notebook allows you to create your own channel of information of skills, thought, jokes (?), whatever you want to move forward in your life.  Read through my different posts about keeping a notebook, but here are some powerful uses for my notebook that I’ve recently discovered:

My notebook is a place where I can re-enjoy the marrow I’ve sucked out of good books and resources. If I buy a $20 book I can multiply the value I get from the book by putting the ideas that make me stop and think into my notebook.  As you review, if the knowledge still makes you “tingle” rewrite it in your latest notebook.  That forward moving thought or inspiration gets reinforced.

My notebook  is a place where I put little mechanical skills that I used to  feel would never become a part of me.
Sometimes there are little blocks of knowledge or skill that can help you create and play.  If you put it in your samurai notebook, in small digestible bits, those bits can become more of you.   For example, I am going through a music theory book for guitarists and wrote down some information on compound meter.  Do I have that concept nailed?  No.  But as I come across it more and more, it becomes part of the conversation.

Random Collection of Notebooks.  Samurai notebooks help keep me inspired, searching, while at the same time keeping me anchored.

Random Collection of Notebooks. Samurai notebooks help keep me inspired, searching, while at the same time keeping me anchored.

Keep in mind that your notebook is not a place for obligation.   Don’t write anything in there that you feel you “have to.”   As you review, you can skip over parts that don’t rock your boat.  Your samurai mind notebook is your weapon, your tool, your de-programming device.   Though it can be physically messy, keep your notebook gleaming and shiny with your love.

Don’t Panic Samurai

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Be patient toward all that is unresolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves.  –Rainier Maria Rilke

Be still and cool in thy own mind and spirit.  –George Fox

Don't panic.  Be like the tiny waterfall joining the big river.  Deep, man, deep.

Don’t panic. Be like the tiny waterfall joining the big river. Deep, man, deep.

Don’t panic and if you do, don’t panic about panic.  If you are trying to move forward in your business or your learning, a little edge is good, but panic is not.   Certain kinds of panic comes from trying to have it all at once.  I felt it one day when I listened to five different podcasts about WordPress and just started to worry that I didn’t know x, x, and x.   OMG!  If you try to have all your breath at once, you are hyperventilating.  If you try to have all your water at once, you will drown.

All of this has come up as I’ve been reading Zen and the Art of Making a Living:  A Practical Guide to Creative Career Design by Laurence G. Boldt.  First of all, the book sent me into a little bit of a panic because it is so big.  Second, Boldt’s rambling style can be a little overwhelming.  But I’ve been hanging in there, skimming and looking for gems because I’m at a point where I need to hear a lot of what he is saying.   Taking Zen a few pages at a time, I’ve been putting the thoughts I need to hear into my samurai notebook where there will rub constantly against my little ole at-times nervous samurai consciousness.   A lot of my recent quotes come from this book.

Though Boldt writes about setting out on a “warrior’s quest” for the career you want, he emphasizes doing it in a calm and persistent manner:

Being too concerned with what is “out there” [instead of what is] “in here” puts you in a position of powerlessness.  We encourage you to begin by identifying the results you want, then to move confidently and deliberately in that direction no matter how small those steps may seem.Children of the Sun

Here we go with the power of the small again.   I began to move forward in with writing and now guitar after I started to take advantage of small consistent steps as a by-product of studying Japanese.   The man who helped me ‘grok‘ this concept was Khatzumoto over at ajatt.com.   In a recent post, he talked about avoiding overwhelm of big goals, just as you might avoid looking directly at the sun:

The Sun is too bright to look at. It can literally, physically hurt to look directly at the big goal. Looking at the metaphorical sun can throw you into a dizzying tailspin of despair and avoidance.
So don’t. Look, that is. Enjoy the biggie 2, but don’t look at it.
Focus back here.
This one word.
This one action.
This one click.
This is all that exists. This is all that matters.

Take one step.  Don’t panic.  If you do, don’t panic about panic.

 

Drop the Seeds and Play: Act Small and Win

There are so many ways to drop seeds.  There are many ways to practice. BTW dandelions aren't necesarily considered weeds in Japan.

There are so many ways to drop seeds. There are many ways to practice. BTW dandelions aren’t necessarily considered weeds in Japan.

If you’ve been reading the blog for a while, you may know that I have hundreds of dollars in learning how to play guitar books.  I’ve been accumulating them for years, but not really using them.   I’ve also barely played guitar and I’ve stayed a beginner.  But I keep reading (and now writing) about the power of five minutes of daily practice.  (Thank you Khatzumoto, The Little Book of Talent, Talent is Overrated, Steve Chandler.  Love you guys. Muahhhh!)   Hey, what’s five minutes?  Even if I am tired, I can keep the mental wheels a little more greased and not lose the physical memory that’s important for playing an instrument.

But I still have those piles of guitar books.  I decided that I would go ahead and spend some time with them but just pulverize them into small digestible bits and see what happens.   Each morning, I find a two minute chunk of knowledge and record it into my samurai mind notebook.  (It’s just a notebook but it sounds cooler, doesn’t it?)  I decided to start with Theory for the Contemporary Guitarist because it seems like something that I could study when I am away from the guitar.

I am studying this slooooooowly.   But my philosophy is that by doing it a little digestible chunk, one little seed, at a time, I am doing a heck of a lot more than just letting the books gather dust.  Maybe in fifty years, I will get to The Advancing Guitarist.  For example, from March 14 to April 9th I studied one diagram of the fretboard and how it is notated.   Each day, I took one fret and wrote down either the notes or how they are notated musically.  Because it is in my notebook, and I use spaced repetition, I am actually going back to those facts repeatedly.

My method is simultaneously haphazard and methodical.  Sometimes I just glance at the notes on a particular fret, but I figure I am staying in the musical conversation.  The other day, I was watching a Jamplay lesson and found myself thinking, “he’s playing it in A.  What are the notes around there?) This is a thought that I wouldn’t have had without a little morning “seed pushing.”

But push needs to come to play.   After I go home and pick up the guitar and target a skill or tune for five or more minutes, I find that there is a guitar around my neck.   I give myself time to play, explore, and just fart around on the guitar.  Sometimes I use the new knowledge, sometimes I don’t.   But there is a little less dust on my guitar and guitar books.

Drop the seeds, plant the seeds, and play.

Hey Coach, Samurai Shrink This

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Some Brazilian players play "futbol de salao."  Small, challenging environments can improve skills.  Work it!

Some Brazilian players play “futbol de salao.” Small, challenging environments can improve skills. Work it!

“Shrink the space.”  After reading Daniel Coyle’s The Little Book of Talent, this phrase has been going through my head continuously.   Coyle says tweets or microfiction help writers to hone their sentences and ideas.  Brazilian soccer players can play futebol de salao, or room soccer.  Within that small space, little moves are magnified.  So much can happen and so much be learned in a small space.

One way to “shrink the space” is to get a coach or an experience that moves you through an experience or skills.  A good coach, program, or book helps you get to the core of a skill in a shorter amount of time.  You are always experimenting and trying things by yourself, but part of that experiment can be the stable of people you hire, the podcasts you listen to, the books you read etc. to help you shrink the space.  The strange thing about coaching is that a coach is not even necessarily better at the whole “game.”   They are just great at shrinking the space, whether it is physical or mental part of the game.  Even Tiger Woods hires a golf coach.

Throughout my life, I realized I’ve had experiences and “coaching” that have helped me “shrink the space” and move forward in different areas:

  • Life/Thinking Big:  Outward Bound.  Spending 23 days learning how to set up tarps, climb, and orient myself in the woods helped me think about bigger and bigger challenges in my life.
  • Money/Finance:   Steve Chandler, Phil Laut and others.  I went on to learn how to be an Outward Bound instructor but I was also in debt.   The books of Phil Laut, Eric Tyson, Jerrold Mundis and others really helped me to have a healthier money practice.  Their books “live” on my Amazon Store.  Check them out and support this website.
  • Relationships:  Eileen Jacobson.   Relationships can be scarier than rappelling down a cliff face.  Eileen really helped me find my ground.  Now I am married with two little people who call me “daddy.”
  • Language and Learning:  ajatt.com and silverspoon. I’m not only learning more Japanese because of this website and paid immersion coaching service, but I have also learned how to be a more successful lifelong learner.  I have learned how to box time and sting like a bee.

Opportunities for shrinking the space are everywhere and are often found when you are “playing around” in addition to when you are intentionally targeting areas for improvement.  I’ve recently stumbled on to the podcasts of Kim Doyal at thewordpresschick.com and have been having fun with it.  Just recently, she interviewed Nicole Fende, author of How to Be A Finance Rockstar.   I am interested in WordPress and I am also interested in small business and finance with a heart.   Through this at times zany but extremely insightful interview, I was able to “shrink the space” and get some interesting perspectives on both.  One of the key themes–don’t be afraid to get help and coaching along the way.

Of course, “getting a coach” can become a hang up.  Yes, I want a guitar teacher but should that keep me from practicing at least five minutes a day?  I would really like to work with an editor, but should that keep me from writing at least fifteen minutes a day on ideas that excite me?  No.   For now I will work with little windows of time and shrink the space.

Join me. Coach or no coach, shrink the space. Try. Play. Love.

 

You Have Three Hours to Live

Time Limits are Actually Your Friend.  Image from Jim at unprofound.com.

Time Limits are Actually Your Friend. Image from Jim at unprofound.com.

Somewhere across the work of Steve Chandler, I came across a saying, “You have three hours to live.  Two of them are gone.”   Of course, that “hour” could be another fifty years and I wish you a healthy and wonderful life.  This  could lead you to be depressed , panic or wake up to all the possibilities of the moment to create and learn.  I do all three just to cover my bases. 🙂

It’s funny that I woke up to the possibilities of time right as my children were born.  When I come home after an intense day of work, I do bath-time, help with dinner, read stories, change diapers blah, blah, blah.    I don’t come home and wonder how I will entertain myself.   Instead, I do what Toni Morrison did when she had small children.  I have become a morning samurai.  I leave the house an hour early and write, study Japanese and music, and cook other stuff up in my mad labs.   Having less time “to myself” put those hours at a premium so I value that time more.  You have three hours to live and two of them are gone.

A little Japanese math helped me on my way.   I am re-reading  “Each Day Thirty Minutes:  55 Study Techniques to Win in Life” or  「1日30分」を続けなさい!人性勝利の勉強法55 Learn to Win 古市幸雄 by Furuichi Yukio.  One of the simple but powerful things that stuck with me is about the power of steady small efforts.   He talks about avoiding becoming a “three day monk.”  (I was introduced to this phrase originally by alljapaneseallthetime.com). This is a Japanese idiom for someone who holes themselves up to study (cram) for long periods, usually after avoiding study.   That kind of studying leads to internal resistance to the idea of study, the idea that study is onerous, hard, and boring.  However,  thirty minutes a day adds up quickly, both in time, connections, results, and a generally positive attitude to learning.  This is more than a theory to me now.  I’ve learned and done so much more than when I used to be a “three day monk”:   WordPress, blog writing, reading Japanese, and now, in drips and drops, music.

Time limits don't mean it's time to panic and rush but rather that it's time to "bring it home."

Time limits don’t mean it’s time to panic and rush but rather that it’s time to “bring it home.” Image:  unprofound.com.

You have three hours to live and two of them are gone.  I was on the Jamplay website (awesome website for guitar–sign up through me and help a brother out).  Someone recommended a lecture by Kenny Werner, a jazz pianist.    This lecture is amazing and I plan on watching it more regularly.  It’s about how to become a better musician, but I think you could substitute any skill into what he is talking about, especially the importance of not hating yourself in the process of getting better.  Yet again, a difference voice talking about the power of the small and how even five minutes of practice can make a difference:

If you say ‘ I’m going to practice for 2 hours’ – then you don’t practice at all, because you’re waiting for 2 hours to come up. If you say ‘I’m going to practice for 5 minutes,” you’ll practice a lot.  Everytime you start for 5 minutes, before you know it is 45 minutes. So then you start to expect 45 minutes, and then you’re not practicing again. This is part of the reverse psychology.  So if you start saying, ‘there are many 5 minutes opportunities in my life, let me focus what I’m going to practice . . . It’ll feel good, because you’ll finally start to feel that you’re not a hostage to the external events in your life. You’re not alone.  We all empower the environment to affect us and it always will, but how much of it affects us is up to how we train ourselves.  Five minutes is always your way ‘in’, so instead of not practicing ( because of whatever excuse etc), practice 5 minutes.  You will be amazed and pleased with yourself, that now these things that come up in your life are not blocking something you got going, something you got started. Everytime you do it, that 5 minutes is usually 10 or 15.  So you are functioning, even in the face of resistance. ….Kenny Werner,  Jazz Pianist

You have three hours to live.  Two of them are gone.  Practice. Play.  Repeat.

 

 

Mad Lab Samurai: Get in To Your Creation Station

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Get into your mad lab creation space at least once a day.  It could be a work space or a rambling walk.

Get into your mad lab creation space at least once a day. It could be a work space or a rambling walk.

If you do anything for yourself give your self one hour a day of “mad lab” time.   Mad lab time is a time that you give yourself to create, tinker, putter without thinking of results, profits, “followers”, et cetera.  This time can be structured yet loose at the same time.    You can try to write for fifteen minutes, study a foreign language for twenty, brainstorm for five, whatever but it’s all done in the spirit of play.   (In fact, a tight time schedule can be good.)

Why:

  • it creates an after-burn that can infuse your other activities throughout the day
  • it allows you to discover yourself and reinvent yourself at the same time
  • when you get to play the universe is happy
  • you start to get into the habit of creating

How:

  • set a time and place where you can create.  It could be a separate office or a quiet room in your house before everyone wakes up.  Don’t get hung up on the perfect spot.  (BTW…The Little Book of Talent says that a lot of talent hotbeds practice and create in rather spartan or grungy spaces.)
  • Have your “tools” easily accessible.  A blank pad of paper, your laptop, your guitar and your tuner.   Leave the “windows” to the necessary sites open.  After a while you will build the physical habit of getting out your tools, which is more than half the step of creating
  • you don’t have to broadcast what you are doing to everyone . . . this is your time to cook stuff up.   Don’t let the haters and doubters in by revealing too much.  (Check out this short article from AJATT “Whose Team Are You On”)
  • Play with time.   Part of having limited time is that you actually get to turn that into a game.  I’ve got fifteen minutes to write.  Let’s make something happen.    This is one of the non-language learning benefits I got from doing Silverspoon, a Japanese immersion service.
  • Repeat.  You will have good days.  You will have so-so days.   But the so-so days send a little life-line, a breath that can feed the “good” days.

    Your mad lab can be work time that feeds play or play time that feeds work. No adults except in the company of a child!

    Your mad lab can be work time that feeds play or play time that feeds work. No adults except in the company of a child!

This isn’t just coming from me.  Steve Chandler explains you should “give yourself one hour every day.”  Julia Cameron, author of the The Artists Way, writes of the vitality that comes from writing morning pages every morning.  Yukio Furichi also writes about the power of the morning in his book 「1日30分」を続けなさい!人生勝利の勉強法55 (30 Minutes Every Day:   55 Study Methods to Win in Life).  For me, it seems really important to do the heavy lifting/creating early in the day because it gets the juices going and starts the day with a “win.”

There is a Sufi saying that “You have three hours to live.  Two of them are gone.”  Get into your mad labs and create.

 

 

 

Trash-Talkin’ Samurai: Deleting is Achieving

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Anki, ajatt.com, flashcard systems can help you untangle the flotsam and jetsam.  But its also important to keep exploring and having fun.  Polished stones and driftwood.

Anki, ajatt.com, flashcard systems can help you untangle the flotsam and jetsam. But it is also important to keep exploring and having fun. Throw out the trash.  Explore the trash.

The other day my daughter, who is five, asked me where to find a good boyfriend.   Startled, I answered that the trash might be a good place.  Luckily, she laughed her head off.  I’m not quite ready to answer those questions from my daughter.

I have trash on my mind these days.  Some people think about the Laws of Attraction.  I have the Laws of Trash:

  1. Delete, throw out on a regular basis.   Deleting is achieving.
  2. Don’t be afraid to enjoy  “trash” on the way to learning goals.

Delete, throw out on a regular basis.   Deleting is achieving.

I recently started a drawer by drawer method of elimination.  Every weekend, I go through one drawer or section of the apartment and take store of what is there and throw out what I don’t need.   It’s a doable project given my busy life.  Two interesting things happen:   I get more free space and I firm up my connection with projects and ideas that I had “shelved.”  I’ve come up with a lot of interesting projects that I thought I had abandoned.

If you are learning a foreign language (or anything) and using electronic flashcards deletion is really key.  Throw cards out and get some breathing room for what you are learning.  Every time I delete a card I feel like I am learning more because I am making a more active choice about what I am learning and reinforcing what I really like to learn.

The day of our path can often be a little less um, scenic, than our lofty goals.  Luckily, you have a pair of crappy sneakers to help you dance above and through it all.

Our path can often be a little less um, scenic, than our lofty goals. Luckily, you have a pair of crappy sneakers to help you dance above and through it all.

Khatzumoto over at alljapaneseallthetime.com is making it even easier these days with his surusu flashcard program.  Khatzumoto has been working in his mad labs again.  I hadn’t touched Surusu flashcards for a while because my decks had gotten huge.   He added a huge and prominent delete button on the card.   When you delete a card, you get congratulated for “keeping it clean.”  Thanks to surusu for making deletion an act of joy.

Now, when I delete I may think “Yes, you are very interesting but hey maybe I will see you again in a more fun context”  or “good riddance.”  Every deletion is a review.   It may even be a fresher review because you have made a fresh choice.  Deleting adds life where there wasn’t any.

Don’t be afraid to enjoy  “trash” on the way to learning goals.

On the other hand, don’t be afraid to enjoy trash along the way to your learning goals.  What are the silly games, books, et cetera that could help you learn your skill or language?   My skills and interest in studying Japanese jumped when I decided to ready trashy self-help books in Japanese.    Lately, I’ve gone back to reading “Beck,”  a manga about rock and roll.   My Japanese still sucks but I am amazed at how much more my reading comprehension has jumped.   Furthermore, some of the dialogue is review of cards I’ve studied, both deleted and non-deleted cards.   (In a weird way, at times it reinforces my continued suckage in guitar.  The other day, I just stared at a picture of the character studying the C major scale diagram.   I was “studying” but just kind of stumbling, day dreaming into part of a skill.)

Don’t lose the love for what you are trying to learn.   Put out the trash.  Look through the trash.  Think trash.

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